Things are not looking too good for Tori Spelling's unborn child, if that child is a girl. We foresee many years of therapy. Maybe her child and Salma's daughter, Valentina can get a group discount.

Tori's expecting her second child with hubby Dean McDermott in July. Their first child, son Liam, turns one year old on Thursday.

Tori says while she and her mom have had a turbulent relationship, they put their differences aside after Liam was born. "I love my mom. My mom loves me. We don't have an easy relationship. I don’t think we ever will, but I’d rather have a complicated misunderstood relationship than no relationship at all."

And, demonstrating brilliant logic, Tori says part of her is hoping her second baby is a girl. "Part of me desperately wants a little girl, so that I can have the relationship that my mother and I didn’t quite have. And then on the other hand, I’m scared that I’ll just kind of repeat mistakes that my mother made with me, maybe. Um, so — but I’d like to give it a try."

Tori, you ought to pray real hard that your baby is a boy. Yes, the odds are great that you WILL repeat your mother's mistakes. How can you not recognize that the troubled relationship you have with your mom will not be healed by displacing your feelings onto another (innocent) human being? You will not identify with your daughter, instead you will become your mother and your daughter will morph into you as a child. Unless you have gone through many, many years of therapy, a daughter is the last thing you need!

[FC]